Monday, August 31, 2009

'Army Wives' Monday: Duty to Inform

*Warning: Spoilers ahead from the recent episode of Army Wives*

Dear Lifetime:

Please don't put episodes on your network that end with a cliffhanger, only to have the resolution of said cliffhanger be spoiled by the network's preview for the next episode.

Case in point: In the very first scene, the show's writer(s) mentioned that Pamela's husband Chase was two weeks late in coming home from one of his super-secret missions. Then a car -- the one that brings bad tidings and makes Army wives Army widows -- drove down Pamela's street. The car drove on by, in slow-motion . . . without stopping at Pamela's house.

The whole episode was overshadowed by Pamela's desperate need to find out what happened to her husband, especially after Pamela saw one of Chase's colleagues on base and he acted very cagey. In the last scene, after Pamela was finally allowed into the super-secret facility to get a look at her husband Chase who was in some sort of medical center, she opened the door, gazed upon her husband and looked horrified. We viewers didn't see what she saw, of course, thus the cliffhanger. We didn't know what happened to Chase and how/whether he'll survive.

Then, there he is in the previews. Standing up. On his own. And, aside from a bruise on his eye, Chase looked okay to me, other than the fact that his wife was yelling at him.

So next time, maybe you network folks should be a bit more careful about wrecking the next episode with your spoiler-filled previews.

Sincerely,

An Army Wives watcher

In other Army Wives developments from the recent episode:

-- Why is Claudia Joy acting so insanely idiotic about keeping her new diabetic diagnosis from her friends? Why is she so insistent about maintaining a shroud of secrecy? As Denise said, it's not a good idea to keep that kind of information under wraps in the event of a medical emergency.

What was with the control freakish behavior in yelling at Emmalin who was just trying to help out by tossing out foods that were bad for her mother? Misplace anger much?

-- Poor Trevor. Chasing people down the street. Running with members of a high school track team trying in vain to get them to just accept just one of his business cards. That was so, what's the word, sad? Pathetic? Hopefully he'll get a better handle on the new gig in the next episode or so, and not have to engage in a mini foot race with teenagers in order to disseminate his business cards.

What are your thoughts on Army Wives' episode "Duty to Inform?"

Image credit: Lifetime.

'Mad Men' Monday: My Old Kentucky Home

When the credits rolled on the latest episode of Mad Men, I felt kind of, well, disappointed. Unlike most episodes, I couldn’t pinpoint a unifying theme. At least not right away. Sure, there were two parties – Roger and Jane’s horrifically awkward old time Kentucky-themed soiree at a country club, and a business-oriented dinner party at Joan and Greg’s. There was a small working pot “party” with some of Sterling Cooper’s underlings when they had to work on a Saturday.

Then there were the other assorted bits of oddness, Betty’s flirtation with the New York governor’s touchy staffer who, upon seeing her standing outside the ladies' room, opened with the line, “I wish you were waiting for me,” and then moved in to touch her belly in a lascivious fashion. And the stolen $5. Am I the only one who was just waiting for Grandpa Gene to take out a belt and beat the light-fingered Sally? (There was a distinctive darkness hovering around Gene, who had Sally read him The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire, of all things.)

Put together, the disparate stories seemed like a hodgepodge of disconnected threads. How did they fit together? Maybe they didn't.

I toyed with the notion that the episode was about places in life as embodied by Peggy’s statement, “I’m in a very good place right now,” despite later being on the receiving end of a patronizing, chiding from her secretary after Peggy insisted that she be included with the creative guys who were smoking pot.

Maybe it was all about places.

Roger and Jane are in a self-contained bubble, pretending to ignore the scorn aimed their way, particularly during their very uncomfortable gathering (the blackface was painful), which Don called “work disguised as a party.”

Betty’s in the world of gestation -- no longer riding horses as she loved last season -- and flirting with a stranger while she looks resplendent in white lace, and later necked with her husband at the edge of a party in the shadows of some trees.

Joan is uneasily morphing into a supporting housewife role – seemingly alien to her -- being placed in a situation by her husband to be his performing monkey in order to up his standing with his bosses. (I hate Greg for the rape scene last year and cannot help but think of him as a domineering, controlling spouse who pressured Joan into performing in front of their company. Did ya catch the uncomfortable look she gave to Greg while she was singing?) Joan's usually the one who sets the agenda and makes the orders, at least at Sterling Cooper. That is, as long as she remains in the secretarial arena.

Gene, a veteran and a former business man, is in a place which is also foreign to him: Bunking in a spare room at the home of his daughter and despised son-in-law, he's been placed under their protective care and the watchful eyes of their housekeeper Carla. Gene is reduced to running around the house, where he’s just a guest, raging that someone had stolen money from him, helpless and confused.

Don -- on whom I can’t get a read this season -- seems to be crawling inside his own skin. He wanted to leave the Roger-Jane fete before he even arrived but stayed because of his obligations to his wife and to Roger. Don was gentlemanly and even affectionate to his wife in attending to her, passionately kissing her -- playing the role of the good husband – after seeing Roger and Jane slow dancing. I wonder if his heart is in the same place as Betty’s when it comes to their marriage?

So maybe there was a unifying theme in “My Old Kentucky Home” after all.

Key/interesting moments and quotes:

-- The Jane/Joan showdown in Sterling Cooper. After a very prickly exchange filled with silences that just hung there, particularly after someone called Jane “Mrs. Sterling,” Jane and her hat told Joan, “Roger is having my rings re-sized. I keep losing weight.” Then she scrunched up her nose in the full-figured Joan’s face.

-- Peggy’s take-down of her secretary Olive’s criticism of her for smoking pot with Kinsey and Smitty was great. After Olive chastised Peggy for leaving her purse unattended in her office and for doing weed (something I cannot imagine her doing to a male boss), Peggy gave this soliloquy:

“I have my own office with my name on the door. And I have a secretary. That’s you. And I am not scared of any of this. But you’re scared. Oh, my God. You’re scared. Don’t worry about me. I am going to get to do everything you want for me. I am going to be fine Olive. I really am.”

-- Pete and Trudy. Oh my God. Pete and Trudy. Doing that dance. Reminded me of George Bailey and Mary Hatch dancing at the Bedford High graduation party on the gym floor that opened up to a swimming pool.

-- Don to Roger, “No one thinks you’re happy. They think you’re foolish.”

What did you think of “My Old Kentucky Home?”

Image credit: AMC.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

'thirtysomething' DVD Release Garnering Lots O'Attention

Everybody's got thirtysomething fever. I tell ya . . .

The thirtysomething gang of seven reunited on the set of Good Morning America to talk about the impact of their insightful, moving drama on pop culture as the first season of the show has now been released on DVD this week.

NPR's Talk of the Nation featured five members of the cast in a lengthy interview. It's a really great chat which I recommend.



A writer likened the Melissa Steadman character to a pre-cursor to Carrie Bradshaw. Hmm. . .

The Los Angeles Times mused on the Baby Boomer juggernaut.

The Washington Post, in reviewing the DVD set, said the show "still works remarkably well as a piece of relatable, well-acted and adult television, a program that -- contrary to popular opinion -- was more than just a whinefest."

The New York Times had a long Q&A with thirtysomething crew members, saying the show "perfectly captured the intimate details of the baby boomer lifestyle in ways no network series had previously, and sparked intense debate about its merits."

Entertainment Weekly gave the DVD set an A.

The Associated Press interviewed several of the stars (see below):

Sneak Peek of New 'Mad Men,' Plus Dyna Moe's Peggy & the College Boy

For your viewing pleasure . . . Dyna Moe's take on episode two of Mad Men's third season, "Love Among the Ruins." Peggy, in blue, kind of reminding me a bit of the color of the blue egg from the Easter episode last year.

Plus, AMC has released its sneak peek for next week's installment, "My Old Kentucky Home," which, if you go by the previews, seems like it'll be explosive. Gotta love -- or hate -- Jane *cough* Sterling's hat.



Image credit: Dyna Moe/Nobody's Sweetheart.

Monday, August 24, 2009

'Army Wives' Monday: First Response

*Warning: Spoilers ahead from the recent episode of Army Wives*

Claudia Joy survived a car wreck -- thanks to lifesaving help from Denise -- and then learned she has a serious disease. Finn's fancy private school and new affluent playmates made some big waves in the LeBlanc house. And I've got a bad feeling about Denise.

Claudia Joy & the Diagnosis

I, for one, am glad that I didn't jump on the "hey, maybe Claudia Joy's pregnant" bandwagon last week when people started to speculate about why her vision suddenly got blurry and she got into a car crash. (Although I'd be lying if I didn't mention that I kept waiting for a doctor to tell her that her blood panel indicated a positive pregnancy test.)

Claudia Joy's diagnosis of type 2 diabetes is a serious one, no doubt. I know it'd be enormously difficult for any family to face. But the way Claudia Joy's "big" diagnoses was being promoted by Lifetime made it seem as though Claudia Joy had something fatal or degenerative. Given that Claudia Joy's such a nut about food, health and exercise, there's no question that she'd diligently follow doctor's orders so she'll fare well in the long run and manage wisely. Her character may, indeed, wind up being a role model for good behavior for fellow diabetic patients, who knows.

Finn's Fancy Private School

At first I thought Roxy's older boy TJ was acting fairly obnoxiously, calling Finn a "know-it-all" and a "dork" because the little one was so excited to start attending a new private school. Then Finn wouldn't shut up about it, talked over everything TJ was trying to say and monopolized the conversations with his yapping. I didn't blame TJ a bit when he finally had had enough and shoved Finn when TJ -- who felt like he had to compete with Finn in order to tell Trevor something about HIS school -- couldn't get a word in edgewise.

I was surprised that Roxy didn't recognize that all the attention that had been lavished upon Finn was having a negative impact on TJ. Not that she should've rewarded his acting out, only been more sensitive to his feelings. On the flip side, it was sweet to see how loving Trevor was with TJ by sharing with him a "special," secret fishing hole as Trevor wove tall fish tales about Fred.

The culture clash between Roxy and some of Finn's schoolmates' parents -- like the family that had an au pair and a gated home with security cameras -- can make for some good plot points in the future.

Bad Feeling About Denise

There was a dark cloud hovering over Denise during this whole episode. While it's true that Michael finally made nice with her after being a twit following the Denise-Frank reunion -- saving Michael's wife apparently wipes the slate clean as far as Michael is concerned -- there was no mistaking that the writers were attempting to foreshadow . . . something. What, I'm not sure.

First we saw Denise telling Roland how lucky she is and how life is so great for her now. Then we saw Jeremy over in Iraq talking about how family is everything and how he can't stop smiling because his parents are back together. Jeremy finally decided to call Denise to check in with her after his colleague spooked him with talk about how they'd need to call one another's family if something happened to one of them in the field. Either these are all red herrings or something's looming on the horizon. And it's not good.

What'd you think of "First Response?"

Image credit: Lifetime.

'thirtysomething' DVD Out Tuesday, Plus Cast Reunion on GMA

Finally!

For those of you who've been waiting so long.

It will arrive in stores on Tuesday.

The first of four seasons of thirtysomething on DVD.

Huzzah! Time to get your Michael and Hope Steadman fix and count how many times Melissa wears a lone earring and her numbers coat.

My celebration and dissection of the season one episodes plus the DVD extras is the subject of my Pop Culture column this week. The interviews and audio commentaries on the DVDs are good, as are the random bits of trivia I gleaned from them, for example, did you know that ABC execs initially hated the name, thirtysomething and wanted to instead go with the name Grown-Ups?

Also, don't miss the thirtysomething gang reunion on Good Morning America on Tuesday.

Image credit: Shout Factory via Amazon.com.

'Mad Men' Monday: Love Among the Ruins

*Warning, spoilers for the most recent episode of Mad Men ahead.*

Ruins, everywhere ruins. Betty's nuclear family has disintegrated and she's unexpectedly become her father's caretaker. Peggy's innocence, her once commented on earnestness is long gone, as is the Sterling Cooper of 1962, now that all the shots are being called long-distance by some Englishmen who don't understand New York or the American way of business. Then there are the ruins of Roger's life, which he faced with a couple amusing one-liners in this recent episode. All-in-all, a wonderfully complex smorgasbord of messages packed into 40-something minutes.

Betty's Family Changes

What I found notable about the Betty-Don storyline this week -- and the struggles with Betty's brother William over what to do with their mentally ailing father Gene -- was Don's behavior. First, we all know that he has no family of his own left, the one family member he's seen in the past three years, his half-brother Adam, killed himself, something about which he never told Betty. William even brought up the fact that Don had not invited anyone to his wedding to Betty. "Nobody at all," William said incredulously to his wife Judy. Last season, Gene, in a moment of lucidity, lashed out at Don and said that he couldn't trust Don because he had "no people."

And here Don is, with two kids and another on the way, seemingly willingly to be a doting (faithful?) husband and taking a difficult father-in-law who clearly doesn't like him, into his home, seemingly to please Betty and put worries that she's a terrible daughter out of her head. Betty could've taken the easy route, sold her childhood home and put her father in a nursing home, but she didn't want to do that, despite her brother's urging that they do so. "Those homes are for people who don't have families, William," she said.


Surely having Gene in Don's house, not to mention a new baby, will make things even more chaotic, given that Gene needs to be watched and last season groped his daughter after he mistook her for her mother. Don and Betty's marriage almost collapsed under the weight of Don's inability to stay faithful to his wife and to resist something shiny and new. With the added pressure of an ailing father and a third child, I'm expecting that the Draper household will be combustible for the remainder of the season.

Peggy's Lost Innocence

The Ann Margret/Bye Bye Birdie bit seemed to serve as a stark contrast to Peggy, who's young in age but no longer in spirit, given the hell that she's been through. She's no longer the doe-eyed Bambi she was the day she walked into Sterling Cooper for the first time. Peggy's inability to comprehend why men were drawn to Margret's warbling, and Peggy's insistence that an ad campaign which knocked off Margret's Bye Bye Birdie number wouldn't spark women's interest in drinking a terribly named diet cola (I agree with her on that point) further demonstrated that point.

"Don't you find her voice shrill?" Peggy asked Don after showing him the scene of Margret singing. (I found it shrill.)

Don, as is his uber-serious cerebral wont, responded, "She was throwing herself at the camera. It's pure. It makes your heart hurt." (It's worth noting that early on in season one, Don once quipped that he was blinded by Peggy's earnestness. How the times have changed.)

When Peggy said she didn't think that an ad campaign modeled on this would appeal to women, who are the intended customer for this product, that it was phony and disingenous, Don disagreed and said that the message he got from Margret's performance was, "'I'm young and excited' . . . Men want her and women want to be her."

Later that night, the jaded Peggy went into a crowded bar alone, tried out a line she'd heard from Joan, and picked up a horribly naive college boy and later had her way with him. It seemed like something Don would've done, definitely not Ann Margret/Bye Bye Birdie behavior.

What I couldn't get a firm handle on was the scene near the end of the episode when Don, Betty, Gene and Bobby were watching Sally perform a Maypole dance with her class. While Betty, very pregnant, sat next to Don in her bright yellow dress and severe-looking sunglasses still visibly tense from the situation at home, Don became fixated on Sally's teacher, a young woman with long, wavy brown hair which shone in the sunlight and was topped with a wreath of wildflowers. The beaming teacher wore a white dress that moved fluidly as she danced barefoot with her students in this colorful celebration. Don put down his drink and caressed, in a tender, longing way, the grass next to his seat, his eyes fixated on the teacher, who was smiling, the picture of innocence. Was this an indication that Don was longing for a touch of innocence? Lusting after the teacher? Wishing for a piece of her energy? Or was this scene designed to serve as the antithesis of Peggy's behavior the previous night?

Sterling Cooper in Chaos

Ostensibly, the Madison Square Garden project was the "ruins" alluded to in this episode's title, given that the pompous Kinsey likened the razing of Penn Station in order to build Madison Square Garden to the destruction of the Coliseum in order to erect outhouses. When the MSG guys stormed away from Sterling Cooper with smoke billowing from their ears, Lane Pryce called on Don and Roger to pull the account out of the embers, which they did, with the help of Don's golden violin of verbiage.

Don urged the MSG developer to forget about the squawking and the protests over taking down Penn Station because, legally, there was nothing they could do to prevent the project from moving forward. "Let's also say that change is neither good or bad," Don said. "It simply is. It can be greeted with terror or a joy. A tantrum that says, 'I want it the way it was.' Or a dance that says, 'Look, something new.'"

This, I thought, seemed like a multi-pronged analogy. It could be a reference to his reaction to his father-in-law's situation, or to the later scene with the Maypole dance. But it's also a reference to the multitude of changes which have occurred at Sterling Cooper since the British take-over because as soon as Don successfully wooed the Madison Square Garden account -- which Don thought was the key to possibly nabbing the World's Fair and "30 years of business" with MSG -- Pryce told him the head honchos at the London HQ didn't want the account after all. This is not Roger and Bert's Sterling Cooper.

Speaking of Roger . . .

The whole reason Sterling Cooper is no longer Roger's and Bert's is because of Roger and his inability to resist that something new, that something brimming with life in the person of Don's former 20-year-old secretary Jane.

Roger's life appears to be in ruins, despite the fact that he says he's sincerely happy. (For an ad man, he's not selling his message well.) His daughter Margaret told him in no uncertain terms that she didn't want Jane to attend the wedding. She's embarrassed by her father's choices. "She's young enough to be my sister," Margaret said. "How would it look?" Mona, who looked fabulous, was pure acid as she coolly informed Roger how their daughter's wedding thing going to play out. And didn't the wedding date just knock your socks off? November 23, 1963, the day after the Kennedy assassination.

Despite all of this, Roger got some of the best lines of the show:

-- "Oh look, Princess Grace just swallowed a basketball," to Betty.

-- "You ever get two sheets to the wind and try that thing on?" to Pryce about his suit of armor in the corner.

So, what are YOUR thoughts on the second installment of this season's Mad Men? Why do you think Don pushed so hard to get Gene live with him and Betty? Was it purely for Betty's benefit? Also, what'd you think of that last, hand-through-the-grass scene where Don was watching Sally's teacher so intently? About Peggy's night?

Image credit: Carin Baer/AMC.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Artist Dyna Moe Starts Illustrating New 'Mad Men' Season

If you were following this blog last year during Mad Men's second season, you no doubt read my heaps of praise for the genius of Dyna Moe, an illustrator who created quirky interpretations of the AMC drama and posted them on Flickr.

Remember all those Mad Men avatars on Facebook and Twitter that AMC heavily promoted, where you could "Mad Men Yourself" a few weeks ago? Those were Dyna Moe's work.

Well she's now started providing images inspired by season three -- which started Sunday night -- and has created, "What the Bellhop Saw" of Don and the stewardess spotted in the hotel hallway by the bellhop, whom we all know was on his way to Sal's room.

I'm looking forward to a new batch of Dyna Moe images. Can't wait to see her interpretation of a pregnant Betty Draper.

Image credit: Dyna Moe/Nobody's Sweetheart.

Suburban Mom's Political Fix: Obama's Shorts, Health Care Battle & Jenny Sanford Sounds Off

Obama's Shorts

I have a special request for the news media, plus every group or web site that now loosely qualifies as the "news" media: Please cease and desist with the Michelle Obama-wore-shorts-and-oh-boy-what-a-scandal stories. You aren't fooling anyone when you cover the "faux controversy" and try to convince us that you don't understand what all the uproar is all about, yet you're still reporting on it and then soliciting viewers'/readers' opinions on whether it's appropriate for a First Lady to wear shorts.

Michelle Obama is a healthy, active, youthful woman in her forties. It's summer time. She's got young kids. It's damned hot. Give her a break. Who cares that she wore shorts? This is so a non-issue.

Health Care Battle

On to REAL news stories . . . Now that White House sources have indicated that government-run health insurance option may hit the cutting room floor and (possibly) be replaced by subsidized, non-profit health care co-ops in an attempt to move a health care bill forward, President Obama (whose approval ratings have taken a precipitous fall amid the intense health care legislation debates) still has a fight on his hands . . . with fellow Democrats. Liberal Democrats want the government-run health insurance option to remain viable, while conservative "blue dog" Democrats, worried about costs and government "take over" of health care, seem to cotton to the co-op idea. If the Dems can't reach an agreement amongst themselves, there will be no health care reform at all and Obama will be handed a major defeat.

I'll be interested in reading the compromise legislation before it goes to a House-Senate conference committee, if it makes it that far. Then we'll get a better idea of what this'll really mean.

Jenny Sanford Sounds Off

It was serendipitous to discover this week that the new issue of Vogue includes an interview with Jenny Sanford, the wife of South Carolina's Governor Mark "Don't Cry for Me Argentina" Sanford, looking fabulous and sounding strong. My new pop culture and politics column is about political wives whose husbands have conducted illicit affairs that inevitably devolved into full-blown public scandals, while the spouses and their children proved to be collateral damage.

My essay points to CBS's new fall show, The Good Wife -- starring Julianna Margulies as a devoted political wife whose husband resigned from office and is in jail after he frequented prostitutes and was accused of abusing the power of his office -- which seeks to offer viewers a peek behind the curtains of the homes of these wives (Sanford, Edwards, Spitzer) and show what damage has truly been wrought. Seeing Jenny Sanford pictured in Vogue and spouting off lines that make it sound like she's so unbelievably together, was a step toward reclaiming her life, and the lives of other devastated wives of pols. More power to her.

Image credit: Jonathan Becker/Vogue.

Monday, August 17, 2009

'Army Wives' Monday: Operation Tango

*Warning: Spoilers ahead from the recent episode of Army Wives.*

Roxy got Finn into private school, even though she doesn't play tennis or speak French. Emily Gilmore went on a bender at Fort Marshall. Pamela's 10-year-old daughter wanted to dress like Britney Spears. And Roland continued being awesome.

Roxy's Son is Goin' Private

In my other line of work, where I write about parenting, I've read a great deal about how hard some parents have to work to get their kids into private schools. One book on the admissions process in New York City painted a portrait of a treacherous process where everything about not only the potential student, but the student's parents comes under intense scrutiny. It's ruthless.

Which is why I loved the story about Roxy, the low-cut dress-wearing bar owner who was trying to get her brilliant son Finn into what seemed to be a snooty private school. The admissions officer, Mrs. Decker, told Roxy that she needed to determine whether "Finn and Fordham Academy are the right fit." Then she added, "We don't just accept the child, we accept the family."

This immediately put Roxy on the defensive as she attempted to employ euphemisms to avoid admitting that she owned a bar. Not just a bar, but one named, "The Hump Bar." When she could no longer skirt the issue and decided to come clean, Mrs. Decker looked taken aback and said, "I don't think we've ever had a mother who ran a bar before."

This led to one of the better monologues Roxy's been given lately, where she said she may not speak French or play tennis "like other moms" whose kids attended the school. She said, "I may not be anything special, but I know that my son is, and I just want a fair shake for him."

When Finn was eventually accepted on a "full" scholarship, I appreciated the fact that the writers mentioned that Finn's scholarship didn't cover a whole host of fees which can be cumbersome and sometimes unworkable for working families on tight budgets. Though Trevor brushed off the potential financial difficulties of paying the private school fees, Roxy wasn't too sure.

The culture clashes between Roxy and Fordham Academy could provide good material in the future, potentially better than Lorelai Gilmore meets Chilton Academy.

Emily Gilmore on a Fort Marshall Rampage

Speaking of Lorelai Gilmore . . . her mother Emily (actress Kelly Bishop) made Claudia Joy and Denise nuts by cavorting around Fort Marshall -- hitching rides in Humvees and sitting on a soldier's lap, sneaking out to the Hump Bar to drink and dance -- instead of attending to her wifely duties as the widow of a U.S. senator, to whom a soldier support center on base was going to be dedicated. I loved that Bishop's character, Jean Calhoun, didn't want to smile stiffly at stuffy, boring events and instead wanted to jump out of an airplane and blow things up for fun. Calhoun was a kick.

Pamela's Daughter Coveted Britney Spears' Style

As the mother of a 10-year-old girl, this storyline hit me between the eyes. Pamela's 10-year-old daughter Katie not only thought she was fat, but said she wanted to be sexy, wear bras, high heels and make-up so she could be popular at school. In one scene, Pamela walked by Katie's room and found the girl dressed like a mini-Britney Spears during her "Hit Me Baby One More Time" phase. Pamela tried to give Katie a heart-felt, sincere lecture about how superficial qualities are unimportant to who you are as a person, but I don't think Katie bought it.

Roland Continued Being Awesome

I think that the writers should just put a shiny halo over Roland's head and be done with it. They always have him doing these great things for Joan even when Joan's lashing out at him like a lion. His gift to her of a tiny videocamera, which Joan could easily take to Iraq and upload videos of herself to show to her baby, as well as a matching one for Roland to record Sarah Elizabeth's exploits and upload each night, was practical and kind . . . as was Joan's videotaped response which ended with Joan ordering Roland upstairs. Too sweet.

Now I, obviously, did not even mention the big haps at the conclusion of the episode. I'm not a big fans of cliffhanger twists like this, however I'll have to reserve my judgment until I see where it's going. There's been a whole mess o'speculation online, dissecting the tidbits of conversation in the previews, but I'm not entering this speculative fray, particularly after that bad call I made regarding Haneen.

What'd you think of this episode?

Image credit: Lifetime.

'Mad Men' Monday: Out of Town



*Warning: Spoilers ahead from the recently aired episode of Mad Men.*

The season three premiere of Mad Men had, overall, an ominous feeling, punctuated by wry moments of sarcasm. From the first scene, conflicting messages were being sent, reflecting the conflict boiling inside our leading man, one Don Draper. There’s an ongoing culture clash and power struggle within Sterling Cooper as the Brits have taken over the joint, while Ken Cosgrove and Pete Campbell have been pitted against one another in the same way John F. Kennedy, the president at the time, famously did with his staffers, with the hope of yielding the best efforts from all his aides.

The Ghost of Fathers Past

Given that the season began with a conflicting scene – Don being a good, doting husband warming up milk for his sleepless, pregnant wife while recalling what an uncaring horror his father was – one would’ve thought, that Don would’ve reformed his womanizing ways. His time spent living out of a hotel room last season, followed by his admission to Anna Draper that he might’ve screwed up the greatest thing he’d ever had, his family, seemed to indicate that Don would try harder.

However a well behaved Don Draper would’ve made for bad television, apparently. So, while he visually conjured up in his mind tales of his father’s cutting cruelty (blaming his wife for “killing another one” after she gave birth to a stillborn baby, then quibbling with a prostitute -- Don’s mother -- over the cost of a condom), you’d at least hope that the reason Don was thinking about these things was to remind himself not to repeat his father’s mistakes. Don, who was thrown out his house last season and then disappeared during his California jaunt, did tell Sally, “I will always come home,” didn’t he? He was comforting Betty with a lullaby woven from detailed descriptions of a warm, sandy beach as he spooned her in bed, right? He’s not his father.

But when Don could not resist the temptation of a blond stewardess who threw herself at him in a Baltimore hotel, does that mean that Don can’t shake the ghost of his father or that he’s simply a kinder, gentler cad named after his mother’s dying wish to do something gruesome to his father’s sex organ?

My favorite scene came at the end of the episode – which featured the same instrumental music that played during Don’s recollections of his father – when Sally, who missed her father so much when he traveled that she broke the locks of his luggage with a hammer, found the stewardess’ TWA pin amid Don’s things. In that moment, Don’s infidelity was right there, in his bedroom, in his daughter’s hands. Don literally gulped when Sally asked if he’d brought the pin home for her and watched as the woman who’s pregnant with his child took the pin and attached it their daughter’s clothing, almost as if she were being stamped with Don’s scarlet letter, except that only he and Sal knew about his unfaithful moment, not the whole village.

Culture Clash

The transition from working for the New York-owned Sterling Cooper, to a British-owned version of Sterling Cooper has not gone smoothly, or so we saw from this first episode when we learned that a third of the Sterling Cooper’s employees have been axed, including the head of accounts who has a sick wife and three kids. Fear of layoffs has been rampant among the staffers and Joan Holloway is being driven bananas by a smarmy, pompous windbag known as John Hooker (the British version of Pete Campbell), who referred to Sterling Cooper: The British Edition, to a “gynocracy.” I’m hoping Joan exacts a slow, twisted revenge on this twit. We saw the first installment of that revenge when Joan told Hooker – whom Peggy Olson called “Moneypenny” -- that he could have the recently vacated office of the fired accounts manager, only to have Hooker’s boss, financial officer Lane Pryce, chastise Hooker and tell him to work at a desk outside the office, not in it.

The Kosgrove-Campbell war shall be very interesting to watch unfold, even if it did seem like a cruel thing to do: Tell someone he’s been promoted to head of accounts, only to later tell him he’s got to share the job with someone else with whom he’s competing. The difference between the ways in which the two men took this news was eye-opening. Ken was relaxed, self-assured and witty when he walked into Pryce’s office. Pete, by contrast, was noticeably nervous, wouldn’t sit down and made lame, almost defensive excuses about why he hadn’t been more hospitable to Pryce since he arrived in New York. At the meeting when the accounts were divided between Ken and Pete, Ken was giddy and smiling, as opposed to Pete, who was sulking, looked near tears and then bubbled over with anger afterwards, like he’d had something taken from him, telling Ken, “You’re no good,” whereas Ken’s response was, “What could possibly be the matter?”

Other episode moments of note:

-- As Sal uncomfortably awaited Don’s response to catching Sal with the bellhop during the hotel fire, I found Don’s response curt but to the point, not at all surprising, given he seems to be the keeper of Sterling Cooper secrets, “Limit your exposure.” Not just a slogan for London Fog (I HATE the chick-flashing ad campaign by the way) but for lying, two-timing husbands like Sal and Don, regardless of with whom you’re cheating.

-- The octopus-pleasuring-a-woman painting in Cooper’s office was off-putting and plain freaky. “I picked it for its sensuality, but it also, in some way, reminds me of our business,” Cooper said. “. . . Who is that man who imagined her ecstasy?” Then Don entered the room. “We were just talking about you,” Cooper remarked.

-- What did Joan mean when she said to Peggy, “I’m gonna be out of here soon.” Are they going to have Joan quit her job in order to marry her rapist fiancé? Or has she already married him and plans to live the at-home married life? God, I hope not. Sterling Cooper sans Joan would be a wretchedly dull place.

I'd love to hear your take on the premiere, both the good and the bad. Why do you think Don was thinking about his father? Who'll win the Ken-Pete showdown?

Friday, August 14, 2009

Suburban Mom's Pop Culture Week: Hamm on Talk Shows, Julie & Julia and Classic Kerouac

TV:

To be honest, I've been DVRing talk shows all week to catch Jon Hamm talk without saying anything of substance about the season three premiere of Mad Men on Conan, Fallon & Good Morning America, watching marathon Red Sox games (like last week's 15-inning losing battle against the sinister Yankees) and cringing as Kate Gosselin also visited the talk show circuit, including her terribly awkward chat with the clueless Regis Philbin who apparently is the only person on earth who thinks there's a chance in hell that Jon and Kate will reconcile. Other than those things and the latest episode of Entourage -- which'll be the subject of an upcoming stand-alone post -- I haven't caught much TV this past week.

Sitting in my DVR queue are two episodes apiece of HawthRNe (which just got renewed for a second season) and Rescue Me, plus I've got to catch up on Weeds and Nurse Jackie with my Showtime On Demand because I'm behind a couple episodes with those as well. (I blame my backlog of unwatched material on my new puppy Max who likes to howl in the middle of the night, for long stretches of time, who's got me feeling like a sleep deprived new mother. It's easy to blame the pup. He doesn't read my blog.)

Oh, I AM planning on watching a niche drama on Sunday night, LIVE. It's on AMC. Maybe you've heard of it . . . something about ad men in the 1960s . . .

DVDs:

Last week I was all wrapped up in season two DVDs of Mad Men for a column I was working on and am just about finished with watching the first season thirtysomething DVDs in preparation for another piece (have one episode left). Don't know what I'll watch on DVD when I'm done with these two shows. Maybe I'll finally watch the Milk Netflix DVD I have sitting, unloved, next to the TV.

Movies:

While I haven't seen any movies this week -- save for the tail-end of Message in a Bottle which I caught on cable and made me instantly tear up because I'm a sentimental fool -- I'm hoping to see Julie & Julia this weekend. Reviews have been stellar. I think my best plan of action will be to eat something halfway decent before walking into the theater, otherwise I'll be distractedly ravenous during the entire thing.

Books:

Finally finished re-reading The Time Traveler's Wife and sniffled my way through the end. Again. Even though I knew how it ended, it still made me cry and ponder Clare Abshire's life choices. Wonder if the movie -- which is, unfortunately, getting mixed reviews -- aptly translates the dense, long and somewhat complicated book. I hope that it does a decent job because that's on my "to see in the theater" list.

After completing Time Traveler, I was browsing through my bookcase at books I own but haven't yet read and pulled down a 1959 edition of Jack Kerouac's On the Road (a paperback that once belonged to my mom). I've never read any Kerouac. It's time I change that.

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'Mad Men' Reviews, 'Morning Joe' Cast as 'Mad Men,' Plus Hamm's Early Acting Gigs

Mad Men season three premiere reviews are starting to roll in -- for those lucky folks who got advanced media screeners -- and the reviews appear to be really good, as good as I expected they'd be. Which only means my expectations for Sunday night's episode are now, oh, I don't know . . . sky high?

From the New York Times, Alessandra Stanley: "Even more than in the first two years, this new season, which begins on Sunday on AMC, stresses the less amusing side of that innocence, leading viewers to look back, aghast at, and enthralled by, a world so familiar and so primitive. Characters on Mad Men struggle in shame and secrecy with the very things that today are openly, incessantly boasted and blogged about: humble roots, broken homes, homosexuality, unwed motherhood, caring for senile parents."

Boston Globe, Matthew Gilbert: "Sunday's hour is, like many episodes of Mad Men, quiet on the surface. There are pauses in conversation, and almost no soundtrack music fills the silences and emotional vacancies. And yet the subject matter of this show shouts at you the more you think about it, the more the characters don't say what you know they are feeling. In even the smallest details -- watch how a stick pin travels through the episode -- Mad Men remains TV at its most artful. Like Don Draper, it's beautiful, stealthy, trouble, and, above all, addictive."

Entertainment Weekly, Ken Tucker (who gave the episode an A-): "The third-season premiere of Mad Men is chock-full of revelations about familiar characters and fresh details about newly introduced ones, as well as the sort of specifics and symbolism that creator Matthew Weiner layers into every episode like a top Top Chef. As with so much about Mad Men, some of it is overheated but never half-baked, and the opening hour rises like a nearly flawless souffle of sex and salesmanship." (I'm in love with that phrase, "flawless souffle of sex and salesmanship." Wish I'd come up with it.)

Los Angeles Times, Robert Lloyd: "That nothing much seems to be happening -- and happening slowly at that, to the frustration of some viewers -- means that small moments play large; it's television as Japanese tea ceremony. Characters are built gradually through action, not declaration, and that action might stray far from what is eventually revealed as the main point. There are those who find this all precious beyond belief -- with an average of only 1.8 million viewers an episode last season, this is a series that would not survive at all on broadcast television -- but I find it quite beautiful more often than not."

Meanwhile, people are having a bit of fun with all of this Mad Men mania leading up to the season three premiere, in particular, the folks at Mediaite who took the crew from MSNBC's Morning Joe and assigned them roles on Mad Men, casting the show's namesake, Joe Scarborough as Don Draper, Mika Brzezinski as Joan Holloway and Willie Geist as the slimy Pete Campbell. Of Scarborough, writers Rachel Sklar and Glynnis MacNicol observed:

"Scarborough, a former Congressman, is certainly no stranger to selling, nor does he lack for Draper-esque confidence. We've noticed he's traded in his zipper sweatshirts for dark suits of late, but that's not all it is -- of any character on Morning Joe, he's the one we can most easily see sitting in a darkened bar with a glass of something amber at his side. Besides, couldn't his book [The Last Best Hope: Restoring Conservatism and America's Promise] on the GOP just as easily have been called Meditations on an Emergency?"

Over on BuzzFeed, they must've taken a little visit to IMDB to look up Jon Hamm's acting roles and listed his top six acting gigs, including the time he was Lorelai Gilmore's most boring date ever on the Gilmore Girls and when he was a firefighter on Providence before the days of Denis Leary as an alcoholic firefighter with a death wish.

Image credit: Frank Ockenfels/AMC.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Livin' the 'Mad Men' Life

From retailers to food and fashion web sites, many people are seeking to capitalize on the retro/cool vibe exuded by the 1960s suave drama Mad Men. Whether it's clothing, housewares or classic drinks, all things Mad Men are considered in.

Want to have that cocktail culture in your own home? Many food-related web sites have created slates of classic cocktail recipes designed for Mad Men-themed soirees, which means Old Fashioneds, Tom Collins and vodka gimlets to name a few. AMC even has its own helpful page of Mad Men-esque drinks, capitalizing on the renaissance for classic cocktails. (Today's New York Times, showcased the tremendous effort the show's crew puts into making sure that the cocktails shown on the program are appropriate for the period.)

Then there's the "Mad Men look," the one that has fashion designers watching Mad Men episodes repeatedly to examine the clothing and styles. While Banana Republic has teamed up with AMC, other web sites offer mere mortals advice on how to dress like Don Draper and style your hair like him. For the ladies, tips abound on how to doll yourself up like Betty Draper or the seductive Joan Holloway (complete with links to similarly styled duds, or as close as they could come to that without buying vintage, and make-up suggestions).

Want your house to look like the Drapers'? Your office to resemble Sterling Cooper? Over on the House Beautiful web site, the editors have found a number of things which you can put into your home to make you feel as though you stepped onto the AMC's Mad Men lot, except Jon Hamm won't be walking through the door anytime soon. In one article, the editors suggest everything from a headboard styled very much like the Drapers' (see photo above), a club chair and an electric typewriter that looks like it belongs in Sterling Cooper's offices, to a starburst mirror that seems like it'd fit in at Pete Campbell's apartment, along with basic, rounded cocktail glasses. HB also has articles and photos about how to decorate in 60s style and an online poll on which style room Betty Draper should choose for her suburban home. (My pick would be the kitchen.)

Image credit: House Beautiful.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

'Mad Men' Week Takes Over Talk Shows

Mad Men week continues here on Suburban Mom as Jon Hamm and Mad Men takes over TV talk shows. But in order to catch the promotional interviews, you've either got to plan on staying up late (in one case getting up early) or setting your DVRs . . .

Mad Men's leading man, Hamm (who plays Don Draper), is slated to appear on The Tonight Show with Conan O'Brien today, August 11.

Hamm is also scheduled to appear on Good Morning America and Late Night with Jimmy Fallon on Wednesday, August 12.

On Thursday, August 13, Hamm is listed as a guest for Live with Regis and Kelly, on the same day as Kate Gosselin, which is an unusual pairing.

On Friday, August 14, January Jones (who plays Betty Draper) is expected to also visit Jimmy Fallon.

Image credit: Frank Ockenfels/AMC.

Suburban Mom's Political Fix: Hillary Clinton Tells Off Questioner, Dances, Plus Testy Health Care Town Mtgs

Hillary Clinton Tells Off Congo Questioner

Me thinks that our secretary of state must've been on the receiving end of a whole mess o'sexist commentary thus far in her tenure, and constantly feel one-upped by her suck-all-the-oxygen-out-of-the-room spouse who got international accolades for helping to negotiate with the North Koreans for the freedom for two U.S. journalists last week. That's the only explanation I have (except maybe sleep deprivation) for Hillary Clinton ditching her normally professionally cool responses to difficult questions and telling a college student from Congo, in a matter of speaking, that she didn't like her question. One problem: The questioner didn't intend to insult Hillary Clinton. The translator screwed up. Whoops.




Hillary Dance Party

I always feel badly for U.S. officials when they venture abroad, play along with local customs and show courtesy to their hosts. How many presidents have donned un-western-like clothing and gotten mocked for wearing the duds by the folks back home?

So when an international host invites you to dance, what are you supposed to say, "No thank you. The late night comedians and folks on the internet will torture me about my dancing. Forever. I'll pass."

Of course not. You dance. And then be a good sport and suffer through the ridicule. Like Hillary Clinton has to at the hands of Conan O'Brien's staff about her dancing during her trip to Africa:




Testy Health Care Town Meetings

The recent spate of health care/health insurance town meetings between congressmen and senators and their constituents have gotten fairly heated haven't they? Some have devolved into circuses where no one gets heard and no one communicates and it all becomes white noise as tempers flare.

As I've watched this unfold, I've seen two sides getting fired up and becoming unable or unwilling to actually listen to the concerns of the other side, with the exception of Barack Obama himself, who seems game to field and handle pointed questions without shutting people down. (However people haven't been as nasty to him personally as they have been to U.S. congressmen and senators.)

The pro-Obama administration folks have tended to parrot the president's lines, like the ones spoken today at Obama's town meeting in New Hampshire: "If you like your doctor, you can keep your doctor. If you like your health plan, you can keep your health plan." Obama said he doesn't want government bureaucrats OR insurance company bureaucrats "meddling" and getting involved in medical decisions made between you and your doctor. He said there won't be "death panels" run by the government to decide if a frail or sick senior should be provided health care. Obama has repeatedly told the story of his mother spending the last weeks of her life fighting with the health insurance company over her cancer treatments. He's also fond of saying, "No one in America should go broke because they got sick." The White House has created a web site which officials said seeks to clarify some of the misinformation voters have been given about the various health care reform bills. (Full disclosure: I haven't read the health care reform bills, though I think I might and then post what I find.)

All of those things seem to be common points of interest on which both conservatives and liberals could, essentially, agree. Keep all bureaucrats out of medical decisions. Pick your own health plan and your doctor. You shouldn't be driven into bankruptcy if someone in your family is sick. All good.

However there's a divergence from all of those common points when it comes down to actual legislation. People, many of them conservative-leaning, have been doing some research into the bills and have become nervous. They fear panels of government officials making decisions related to their health. (I imagine someone from my state's notoriously unfriendly Registry of Motor Vehicles handling my or my children's health claims and I shudder.) They don't want a single, government-run health care plan, which Sen. Arlen Specter today said he'll consider as senators discuss competing pieces of health insurance legislation. People are justifiably leery about how much this is going to cost, particularly during a recession.

Then, at town meetings across the country where there have been people posing well reasoned questions about the plans, there've also been screaming nutcases. The media give a lot of the coverage to the nutcases and eventually everyone who questions the plan is lumped under the category of an unruly mob. It's at this point when we realize that when it comes to health care and making life-and-death decisions, people take things very personally.

Democratic proponents of the health care overhaul haven't made things better by labeling the voters who are getting riled up at town meetings "un-American," like several of the people at Senator Specter's meeting with constituents today. There's a way to express your skepticism, disapproval and ask tough questions without being a jack ass.

Having partisans like Ann Coulter and James Carville chattering on Good Morning America about these emotional town halls certainly doesn't help bestow calm or promote rational discussion. But rational discussion can be quite boring, mind-numbing at times, and doesn't make for good TV which thrives on drama and conflict. I'd love to see leaders from both sides of the aisle, step up and seek the calm, boring middle ground here, tamp down the fury and the name calling and bore us all to death with reasonable and open discussions. For as long as it takes, without rushing. But I guess that's just too much to ask for.

Or we could just call Jon Stewart for his read on the situation. While he is a liberal, he's funny.


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Monday, August 10, 2009

'Mad Men' Madness: The 60s, The Women & Don Draper


*Warning: MINOR season three spoiler ahead.*

It's Mad Men week here at Suburban Mom, leading up to the season three premiere on Sunday night. Set your DVRs for 10 p.m., August 16 (9 Central), even though I know that true fans will go old school and watch it live.

My new pop culture column this week is all about the award-winning AMC drama. It examines the show's first two seasons and concludes that while Don Draper (Jon Hamm) is clearly the star -- the central figure from which everything and everyone else is an offshoot -- the collection of Mad Men women represent "the moon, providing the show its gravitational pull."

Meanwhile, the New York Times had a piece about Mad Men which finally provided an answer to one key question about season three: What year will it be? The answer, according to the Times, is 1963, the year of the publication of Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique, the Bull Connor-led attacks on peaceful civil rights protesters, Martin Luther King Jr's "Letter from a Birmingham Jail," and, THE event, the John F. Kennedy assassination.

I'm hoping that in the third season, the women's stories continue evolving the way they have, messily, realistically and, in some cases, providing an aspirational empowering message. (I speak, of course, of Peggy Olson, advancing quickly in the masculine world of advertising). Plus I can't wait to see Don interact with a baby. Does Don Draper do diapers?

What are you most looking forward to in a new season?

Image credit: Frank Ockenfels/AMC.

'Army Wives' Monday: M.I.A.

*Warning: Spoilers ahead from the recent episode of Army Wives.*

Frank got promoted, while Michael gave Denise the stink-eye. Joan punished Roland because she's angry that she's deploying. Roxy helped out an idol.

Frank Got Promoted

Frank and Denise's story this week was told through two lens. One was happy and giddy, where Frank was promoted to lieutenant colonel, which meant he got to stay on post -- instead of returning to Iraq -- where he could continue enjoying a second honeymoon with his wife Denise, whom he'd welcomed back into the Sherwood house in the previous episode. (Their lovey-doveyness isn't getting old. At all.)

The other was a negative one, a continuing, smoldering stink-eye given to Denise whom the pigheaded Michael Holden still can't forgive for having had a fling with a former patient while she and Frank were separated. What business is this of Michael's? Frank has forgiven his wife and they've come back from the brink of divorce, so why can't Michael forgive her too? Either there's some backstory there to which we're not yet privy, or he's just being a jerk. It was bad enough that Claudia Joy had been an ice queen to Denise for several episodes, freezing out her so-called friend when she needed her. It took Roland to talk some sense into the Army wives for them to finally realize that they were being intolerant and abandoning their friend.

Michael, however, was never party to Roland's lecture. So when Claudia Joy invited Frank and Denise over for dinner to celebrate Frank's promotion, Michael gave Denise bad attitude, which he could barely contain when he was alone with her at the dinner table and couldn't bring himself to look her in the eyes. It was a pleasure to watch Claudia Joy later call BS on Michael's behavior. "What she did violated everything I believe in," he argued. After acknowledging that Michael's got a very specific, by-the-books manner by which he lives his own life, Claudia Joy asked, "What about compassion? Where does that fit into your equation?"

Joan Punished Roland

I really like Roland. His season one fling aside, since then, he's been a stellar husband. In this episode he continued trying to be kind and patient when Joan was becoming bereft over the fact that she was going to miss so much of her baby's "firsts" while she's on deployment. To help ease her sadness, Roland went out and bought Sarah Elizabeth a bumble bee costume and declared that it was Halloween (it wasn't) and said Joan could celebrate the baby's first Halloween together. He told her he planned to also have a baby's first Thanksgiving dinner and Christmas holiday before Joan left. Instead of appreciation, his gesture was met with fury and Joan stormed away.

Later, when Joan gave him a hard time after he decided to feed Sarah Elizabeth solid baby food without talking to her first, Roland lashed out at Joan with some straight talk: "Reality check, Joan. It was your choice to deploy. And you made that choice without consulting me. So where do you get off acting like it's a big surprise that you're gonna miss some milestones? You act as if you're the only one who's going to be affected by this. But you know somethin' sweetheart? Sarah Elizabeth is going to miss her mother and I'm going to miss my wife. So if you want to play the martyr go do it someplace else, we're really not interested."

And while I was supremely annoyed with Michael's behavior toward Denise, he did provide excellent counsel and insight to Joan, as he sympathized and recalled his own difficulties when he deployed during Claudia Joy's first pregnancy and missed his daughter's birth and milestones. Watching Roland and Joan prepare, logistically, mentally and emotionally for her deployment has been a storyline which has held my interest, much more than anything the writers have given, say, the Moran or LeBlanc families this season.

Roxy Helped Out an Idol

Despite the fact that the Stella Raye story was a mechanism to provide extra face time for special guest star Shelby Lynne, it also provided viewers with another glimpse into Roxy's backstory as a formerly abused wife. When Roxy took in Stella (fed her, housed her) I figured that this was just something that this Roxy did -- like the way she gave Viola a job -- helping people who needed it. (That only applies to people though. If you're a dog named Lucky, forget it.) But it wasn't until the conclusion of the Stella storyline when we learned that Roxy had a special attachment to the down-on-her-luck singer because, years ago, she'd released a song about having the strength to stand up against abuse which gave Roxy the courage to do so herself.

Speaking of guest stars . . . when we got to the previews for next week's episode, I was thrilled to see that Kelly Bishop (i.e. -- Emily Gilmore from the Gilmore Girls) will appear in the next Army Wives. Can't wait.

Image credit: Lifetime.

Trashy Celeb Dirt: Kate Gosselin Speaks Out on 'Today'

Enough with the stories about which twentysomething is Jon Gosselin dating today. Now Kate Gosselin, his soon-to-be ex-wife, has taken hold of the PR nightmare that is their divorce and went on the Today Show to provide her side of the story. And the Today Show pulled out all the stops to try to get Kate to cry because crying makes for good TV.

When Meredith Vieria asked Kate why she was still wearing her wedding ring, Kate said, "For them," meaning her children, who she said she's trying to gradually ease into the new situation. Her eyes welled with tears that didn't quite fall down in a shower, though Meredith did pointedly, dramatically, hand her tissue. "I don't want to upset them."

"This is not what any mother sets out for for her children," Kate said of the divorce. "This does not feel like the best for my children, but it's necessary."

Vieria asked Kate about a post-break-up interview Jon had given in which he said Kate was the one who gave up on the marriage last year. To her credit, Kate replied, "Clearly, we both have completely different takes on what happened between us but I feel like the details of that, for the sake of my kids, need to remain private."

"Clearly, his goals are not my goals," she added.

However the heartless Vieria kept pressing -- trying to get Kate to full-on weep perhaps? -- asking Kate how she felt about the fact that Jon was dating the daughter of the plastic surgeon who did Kate's tummy tuck which was televised on Jon & Kate Plus 8. How the heck do you think she felt Meredith? "It's got to be hurtful," Meredith goaded. She then proceeded to ask Kate what she did to contribute to the downfall of the marriage saying, "Marriage is a two-way street. Divorce is a two-way street. What role do you think you played, if any, in what happened?"

I actually felt badly for Kate while watching this interview and got the distinct impression that she was being used to goose up Today's ratings, as the words "Exclusive" were plastered on the screen. This is one reason (among the many) why I stopped watching the Today Show. The interviews started to feel too exploitative.

But certainly Kate knew that this would happen before she set foot on the set. Her live interview had been promoted for days. So perhaps she was simply trying to eek out some sympathy, acquire more people to side with her on Team Kate, as opposed to with her immature husband. Meanwhile, their children are the ones who'll really suffer the most.

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Friday, August 7, 2009

Slice of My Teenaged Years Via John Hughes

Saw the link to this YouTube montage of scenes from the late John Hughes' 1980s films -- set to The Who's Teenage Wasteland -- on Twitter via Saturday Night Live's Seth Meyers.



My favorite Hughes movie: Tie between Sixteen Candles and The Breakfast Club. I loved Molly Ringwald.

What's your favorite 1980s Hughes movie?

1. Sixteen Candles
2. The Breakfast Club
3. Home Alone
4. National Lampoon's Vacation
5. Planes, Trains & Automobiles
6. Ferris Bueller's Day Off
7. Pretty in Pink
8. National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation
9. Weird Science
10. Some Kind of Wonderful

Mad Men Season 2 DVDs & Killer Vanity Fair Photos

I've spent the past couple of days marinating in Mad Men's second season DVDs in preparation for a column I've been working on. And, I must say, as a Mad Men fan, I found the DVD extras to be insightful. There are a bunch of audio commentaries on the disks which not only illuminated characters and plotlines, but also confirmed some of Mad Men fans' suspicions about why show-runner Matt Weiner had certain things happen.

For example, Jon "I'm Don Draper" Hamm said that the one of the main themes of the AMC show's sophomore season was about the evolution of the female characters, about "these women finding their place and finding their power." While commenting on the season two premiere, Weiner said that Betty Draper (January Jones) was trying to figure out the value -- in hard currency -- of her housewifedom and determine whether being a married, at-home mother was a form of prostitution. "I love this idea," Weiner said, "'What are we worth?'"

On the audio commentary for the episode "The New Girl," (otherwise known as the one where Don gets into a drunk driving accident while the Odious Bobbie Barrett's in the car, and Peggy bails them out of jail), it was fascinating to hear actress Melinda McGraw, who played Barrett, express her shock at how much "people hated Bobbie Barrett." She speculated on why there was a double-standard for Bobbie's cheating versus Don's, calling her character a female version of Don the debonair.

The disks also included a two-part documentary about the evolution of the feminist movement, using the women of Mad Men as a jumping off point, putting the show into historical context. (If Weiner sets season three in 1963 -- he hasn't yet divulged the year -- this Newsweek piece provides some details on what historical events transpired in 1963 that could be woven into the Mad Men narrative.)

Meanwhile, the media (myself included) are working themselves up into a frenzy leading up to the August 16 season three premiere:

-- Vanity Fair just released a long article about Mad Men and included some killer Annie Leibovitz photos of Hamm and Jones that should sell a lot of copies of that magazine. Smokin'.

-- New York Magazine had a three-article package about the show, including a shout-out for the snake-like Pete Campbell and a guide to the show's first two seasons.

-- And after seeing the slate of Mad Men events slated to occur in New York City in the next week, I'm kinda wishing I lived in NYC to attend them.

Image credit: Annie Leibovitz via Vanity Fair.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Suburban Mom's Pop Culture Week: Weeds, Jon & Kate, Mrs. Washington, New York Times Mag on Julia Child

This past week has been sheer madness at my house. We celebrated my youngest son's birthday and then took a seven-plus round-trip car ride to New York to adopt a 3-month-old puppy who has yet to sleep through the night yet in his crate without howling all night long . . . kind of like my youngest son did. Until he was three.

Here's what I've been able to fit into my pop culture consumption in the past week+, that is when I'm not taking the puppy outside in an attempt to housetrain him and keep the six-pound ball of fluff from being dinner to larger animals in the neighborhood.

TV/DVDs:

-- In order to prepare for writing a column about Showtime's Weeds, I ODed on it, watching several seasons via Netflix and On Demand. After watching the evolution of Mary-Louise Parker's character Nancy Botwin, while I remain entertained and intrigued by the current season of the mom-pot dealer comedy, I liked Nancy's character a whole lot more in first season, before she got seriously dragged down into the muck and immorality of the drug trade.

-- Jon & Kate Plus 8 returned with two new episodes this week, only with a lot less of Jon and more of Kate-as-a-single mom. As I sympathize with Kate more each day as I read more about the heel that is her soon-to-be-ex-"Hey I'm still young!" spouse, Kate sure doesn't make it easy with her queen-like, dismissive attitude displayed in the show's first new installment since they announced that they were filing for divorce. In one scene where Jon and Kate were consulting with kitchen designers about renovating their kitchen (a room which I think looked awesome and didn't need massive changes, but what do I know?) she was wretched when she gestured toward a vase of flowers and dismissively told Jon, "Can you get rid of those? They're really distracting and ugly." Then, in a strategic feat of editing, the show's producers soon went to a cut where Kate -- who now sits in a white chair, not a love seat, for her one-on-one interview, Jon does his separately from a leather chair -- said, "I'm not as ridiculous as I used to be."

I also really did not like how the show's editors mocked Kate's attempts to camp outside in her backyard with the kids in two tents by getting her children to make fun of their mother and say she didn't know what she was doing in putting up the tent. It was disturbing to watch to say the least.

-- In a moment of weakness, I DVRed and watched the Hallmark Channel's original film, Mrs. Washington Goes to Smith, about a woman who quit college during her junior year in order to get married, worked to put her husband through dental school, raised their children to adulthood and was unceremoniously dumped by her husband for another, younger woman. In a life-altering decision, the character, Alice Washington, decided to go back to school and live in the dorms in order to complete her final year of college. She hoped to then become a high school English teacher.

Why would I watch a completely predictable but satisfying TV film -- akin to gorging on a salty bag of chips -- which had at least one totally fantasyland situation (there's no way a fifysomething woman would make the Smith College hoop team, at least that fiftysomething)? I watched it becuase it starred Cybill Shepherd, whom I've always liked -- especially for her sitcom Cybill -- and was surprised to find that her love interest/college English professor, was played by Jeffrey Nordling, who was in Once and Again and, more recently, 24. Sure, it was a chickflick in its purest form, but it was one with an upbeat, positive message, "This is the next big step in the rest of my life," Shepherd's character, Alice Washington said. The Hallmark Channel is re-airing the film numerous times.

-- I'm up-to-date on Entourage and have found myself getting increasingly irritated with the man-boy that is Vince.


-- In preparation for a Mad Men-themed column, I'm immersing myself in the Mad Men Season 2 on DVD, especially the special features.

Magazines/News:

-- This past weekend's New York Times Magazine was so chock full of articles that I haven't even finished reading it all yet. Among the pieces was a solid one on the dearth of female superheroes for little girls to embrace and a thought-provoking one about the contradiction between the fact that while the Food Network seems to be doing well and people are much more sophisticated about food in general, we're making fewer and fewer meals on our own, instead preferring to outsource meal prep to the grocery stores and restaurants. Julia Child's revolutionary 1960s PBS cooking show was featured prominently in the piece, given that the film Julie & Julia comes out this week. (I'm hoping to see that movie soon and write a column on.)

The lengthy Michael Pollan food article was a fascinating read. Here's a sample:

"It’s no accident that Julia Child appeared on public television — or educational television, as it used to be called. On a commercial network, a program that actually inspired viewers to get off the couch and spend an hour cooking a meal would be a commercial disaster, for it would mean they were turning off the television to do something else. The ads on the Food Network, at least in prime time, strongly suggest its viewers do no such thing: the food-related ads hardly ever hawk kitchen appliances or ingredients (unless you count A.1. steak sauce) but rather push the usual supermarket cart of edible foodlike substances, including Manwich sloppy joe in a can, Special K protein shakes and Ore-Ida frozen French fries, along with fast-casual eateries like Olive Garden and Red Lobster. "

-- Last week's issue of New York Magazine arrived at my house just yesterday -- thank you snail mail -- and I got the chance to enjoy Emily Nussbaum's ode to the chameleon-like Madonna who's now entering another phase of her life and of her public persona. While Nussbaum's favorite phase was the "Ideal Brunette Madonna . . . saving Black Jesus in that incredible slip," (mine was the "Express Yourself" Madonna), she wrote:

"Maybe it’s because I’m getting older along with her, but watching Madonna strut past 50—hips grinding in high heels, posing legs spread—brings out anxious, contradictory emotions. It’s become taboo to criticize stars for plastic surgery—both because it is their choice and because they have no choice—but each time I glimpse that grinning mask, I wonder why it’s impossible for Madonna, with all her power, her will to shock, to ever stop 'giving good face'? I try to persuade myself to admire her most New York qualities (ambition, workaholism); I tell myself she’s a dancer, and this is what dancers do. But I feel exhausted just witnessing the effort it must take to maintain this vision of eternal youth. This didactically selfless Madonna is less inspiring than the selfish one in so many ways."

The latest New York arrived today and I can't wait to dive into the Mad Men pieces, including an interview with Christina Hendricks, a defense of Pete "The Snake" Campbell and an abridged guide to the first two seasons. Not that I'm obsessed with Mad Men or anything.

What are your pop culture fixes of the week?

Image credit: Alexx Henry/Hallmark Channel via the New York Times.